Beauty in sovereignty is compassionate to God first.
Breakthrough challenge: Rather than 'ask yourself' questions today, take an inventory of people you should forgive. Go to the extent of listing each person that has wronged you on a piece of paper. One by one, speak to them as if they were there and tell them exactly how they hurt you. Then? Forgive them in words and bless them in prayers. At the very end, throw the paper in the trash and take it out with the garbage.
Today: celebrate the fact that you really do have the ability to be merciful to others. Compassion is the essence of true beauty.
Today: Forgive others. Make a mental list, or if you feel like you need to write a list of names, do it and then forgive every person on that list. Compassionate mercy never holds forgiveness hostage.